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The Power of Forgiveness

When I am coaching clients that have been single for decades, I like to explore and discover what caused them to decide NOT to love. My assumption is that a naturally healthy human being falls in love and manages to attract their partner to themselves with synchronicity. Synchronicity is defined as "Coincidence of events that seem to be meaningfully related, conceived in Jungian theory as an explanatory principle on the same order as causality." It is as if our healthy instincts CAUSE our partners to come into our lives through all kinds of means whether the meeting has been arranged or seemingly coincidental.

When this natural "synchronicity" has not been working in their lives for prolonged periods, I know that something has happened at the emotional level to prevent it. Something has happened to hurt the person's feelings so much that they have decided to protect themselves from any future which may be less than ideal. It is very sad to watch these people reject anyone that does not promise to be the genuine "knight in shining armour" or genuine "Queen of Hearts".

The place to find the new love very often happens to be the same place where you decided to stop loving and forgiveness for whatever happened to hurt you so much is the key to open up the doors for natural "synchronicity" to occur in your life again.

If you choose to forgive and let go of just one hurt every day, you will feel lighter and lose all the excess weight that is weighing you down....that goes for my slim readers too! We all carry more than we need! J

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