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 What’s the best thing that can happen?

Earlier this week, I received an e-mail from an anxious friend preparing for a very important workshop with an audience of high-powered professionals.

I replied with a one-liner “What’s the best thing that can happen while you are giving this workshop?” His response was a simple: “I can see why you have a reputation as a quality coach - thank you for that Jesvir - I feel better!” 

Sometimes coaching is that simple….just shift the focus onto what you WANT rather than what you DON’T WANT. 

It is commonly agreed nowadays that we give energy to whatever we focus on and that our expectations are often fulfilled according to a “self-fulfilment prophecy” theory….in the world of education this theory has been experimentally demonstrated. It has been shown in numerous studies that with a sample of students of equal intelligence, if their teachers expect them to pass, they do, and if their teachers expect them to fail, they do!

Even in the world of science, there are studies indicating that the atoms in a cell are influenced by the expectations of the scientist observing them. 

So what are YOU expecting today? Imagine that you are painting the canvass of your life? What’s the best you can make it look today? Have fun! 

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